It really depends on each of us. I don’t smoke, but I do enjoy an edible now and then, usually after the kids are in bed and we’ve cleared our schedule for the day.
My wife stopped smoking completely and only recently, about a year and a half after our last child, started using edibles again again, only after the kids are asleep or staying over at grandma’s.
I find it so important to be fully present and available while the kids are up and running around.