First off, everyone’s hyping these sweet gigs, but there’s a catch. 💰 Good pay after you get experience, but you’ll be away from your kid and lady. You could go into a trade, take less cash, but be home most nights instead of being gone weeks. Just my two cents – try stuff, switch it up if it ain’t working. 🙏 You gotta put food on the table, sometimes that means being away for work.
Don’t go snag a brand‑new truck the second cash starts flowin’. 🚚 Be smart, don’t be impulsive. Think about your kid, future wife, yourself when you decide on the spot, and how it’ll hit you later or if you lose the job. Dno’t let parents or anyone walk over the parenting choices you and your lady make together. Your folks raised ya ages ago, things change. Hear the advice, but do what you and your fiancé agree on – set boundaries.
I started at 18, my wife was 17, now we got an 8, 5, and 3‑year‑old. 🎉 You’ll mess up, just make sure they turn into lessons. Congrats on the baby bro! 👶