How do I rebuild trust with my kids after a false PFA?

ducksoryfynn

Hey guys, I’ve been quiet for a while. I’m going through a separation with my wife. Long story short: she filed a protective order against me and my boys. After three court dates, I haven’t seen my kids since May 4th. The order is finally dropped—small, but probably my biggest win. I’ve never laid a hand on my soon‑to‑be ex‑wife or any woman. Everyone who knows me knows that truth. I’ll finally be able to see my children agan. It’s been tough; I barely made it this far. But I’m still here, celebrating this small victory. Keep your heads up, kings. Positive vibes to all.

anarchistwipacker

I was there three years without my kids. I published an article; it sparked a DOJ probe into the Missouri children’s division. Its dismissal is a BIG WIN, showing there’s no fact to hold against you. That helps if she ever attempts malicious actions again.

TerryTheTank

Wow Congratulations always a light at the end of the tunnel ✨️ good for you.

dockappasushi

I was in that spot four years ago. It gets better. Just focus on your kids and things will slowly improve.

SilkStorming

Keep your head up brother, congrats on the win.

Skywardz88

A sucess story worth sharing. Im extremely happy for you brother

DynoShok

I'm heading to court on 13 August to fight for primary custody of my daughter and son. July was a total nightmare, but my kids' health and happiness come first.

jackajvogtblgram

I’m really sorry you’re dealing with this.

Going through a separation is one of hte toughest things for any guy.

Remember, a queen needs a king, not a servant. You’ve learned a lot from your wife about what you do and don’t want.

Being around supportive men is crucial when you’re in the fire. I recommend checking out the ARC System – Create An Unbreakable Marriage (Dads Only) for a bunch of free resources that help dads rebuild their lives, become better for their kids, and eventually create a healthy relationship when you’re ready.

Wishing you all the best 👊🏻❤️