Should I divorce my wife after catching her with another man?

pranavruleslion

I just saw my wife leave my house in a car with another man, and months ago I heard her on the phone with a man while I was showering. What should I do? Should I move on because I know she’ll deny it, or should I start filing for divorce? What should I do?

royalblade360

End it now. Don’t let her gaslight you.

TerryTheTank

Document everything and get a case together for your attorney

JasonTrey13

File before she does. Don’t let it eat you alive

NebulaNomad9

You know the answer and you know what to do! If you were leaving her as we all agree you should have then you would have left the first time it happened.

Fellas, know your worth. No woman is worth subjecting yourself to this crap.

PhantomGear99

It’s tough to accept that someone you love dearly can betray you, but betrayal happens worldwide every day. Choose now, put yourself first, and you’ll be prouder of yourself.

redplumsource42

First thing: don’t let your emotions take the wheel.

edenseashadowbig

Honestly, at that point I’d be over it. I just can’t deal with worrying about where her mouth’s been every single time we kiss.

NardoDoctor

Gone. And don't give it another thought. Do not look back.

WrenchNico

Trust her to be who she is and decide if her actions are okay with you.

Personally, I’d just leave.

realMush21

Man, it hurts like hell, brother, but you’ve gotta cut her loose for your own mental health! I’ve lived through that shit for over 7 years, watching her screw co‑workers and patients.

KairosSage

Some folks get past infidelity and end up with a stronger marriage. Most people file for divorce if it were me, that’s what I’d do. Most cheaters don’t learn not to do it again; they just learn that you’ll tolerate it. In the end, the decision is yours.

Lostfound

I try to stay calm, cool, and collected, reminding myself to breathe. I know I need to call a lawyer. I gather every piece of evidence I can find. And I do it quietly, almost in a whisper.

I picture handing the papers over at her job, tucking a bouquet of flowers in for a little extra sparkle, and then bracing for the inevitable storm to break loose.

DodgerEzreal

You deserve way more respect than you or her are giving you

spinrevus87

Hold up, you asked the same thing twice. Yep. File the divorce. Stack the evidence. Bail out. If you got kids, sort the family raid.

fizzjugcamp

I’m sorry you’re dealing with that brother. You deserve better than that.

stormllama

Only you, mate, can answer that! If, in the depths of your heart, you suspect she’s cheating, call her out three strikes of shady behavior and it’s game over. But if you’re convinced she’s being truthful, shout it from the rooftops!

KhaosRebels

You shouldn't even be asking, brother. The first time should have been the one and only straw. She doesn't love or respect you. Get out of there fast! Go work on yourself and move on to bigger, better things.

Zeropine

Be strategic. Have a plan. Don’t make big moves out of emotion

antijagpancake

I think it really depends on whether you can truly live with a cheater honestly, I couldn’t, and if you feel you can, maybe the best choice is to let it go.