Looks like I’m headed for a s econd vasectomy. I booked it, but my wife got upset because we hadn’t talked it over enough first, so I hit pause and cancelled the appointment.
Just a bit of background: she had a panic attack on the day of my first one.
She reminded me that I was making the decision as if I were single.
Bottom line: make sure you both are on the same page before moving forward with anything.