ArSuperHolicon How can I truly tell if my marriage has reached its end? I feel so lost—I don’t know what to think or do any more, friends.
MuddySarel Sorry u’re goin through, bro 😔. I can see it from the question. No more anger, no more frustration just a quiet resignation. I’m done. Still remember hittin that point on a flight back from Phoenix. I wasn’t angry anymore, I was done.
TerryTheTank I can tell because I’m not hurting as much as I used to. I don’t get mad sometimes there’s literally nothing I can say, and I just shut down. That’s it.
RandyStingra One of my favorite ways to define marriage is when two people promise each other to do everything they can to reach their full potential and support one another along the way. I don’t have a definitive answer for you, but if any part of you is still willing to try fixing things, give it a shot. Marriage is tough. Divorce is tough. Choose your hard.
MidnightSky7 I can understand your frustrations when you are home and feeling separate from your wife… Just know you can only change yourself and own actions. Your wife has to want to make an effort herself to change behaviors. Often many things can be handled with effective communications… If youd like some helpful tools which can help initiate conversations to help these issues check out the ARC System Create An Unbreakable Marriage (Dads Only). Keep your head up