When you become about yourself fuck sex and the people and work attached to it. Not worth playing the game; you’re in the addict state, so push through, brother. Become about you, find something to pour into if you’re not pouring into her. I’m divorcced here, so I agree it’s different if you’ve got a girl who’s not with it. But if you pour into you, she’ll see and give something; you reject and focus on you, and that power will transfer. If no sex in two weeks got you worked up, then you may need a break to clarify what the situation is. GL.
What do you think is the best way to keep the focus on yourself?